Oh, I wasn't trying to be an anti-dentite. I just find it tragic every time someone leaves a spouse for someone else. What were those vows for, anyway?
ElfDude wrote:Oh, I wasn't trying to be an anti-dentite. I just find it tragic every time someone leaves a spouse for someone else. What were those vows for, anyway?
You are quite right there. I know we have said it before, but just for the record, I'll say it again.
My marriage had already broken down before I met T, as did T's for completely different reasons. At first we both accepted that we would probably remain cyber loves, but circumstances put us both in a position to take it much further. We would not have been comfortable, actively forcing the end of our respective marriages in order to be together.
ElfDude wrote:Oh, I wasn't trying to be an anti-dentite. I just find it tragic every time someone leaves a spouse for someone else. What were those vows for, anyway?
You are quite right there. I know we have said it before, but just for the record, I'll say it again.
My marriage had already broken down before I met T, as did T's for completely different reasons. At first we both accepted that we would probably remain cyber loves, but circumstances put us both in a position to take it much further. We would not have been comfortable, actively forcing the end of our respective marriages in order to be together.
Oh geez, I hope you didn't think I was throwing stones at you two. Not at all. On the contrary, when you're already in the final stages of divorce, or recently divorced, it's a wonderful thing to actually have some sort of bright future to which you can look forward... a light at the end of the tunnel. I'm happy for you both.
ElfDude wrote:
Oh geez, I hope you didn't think I was throwing stones at you two. Not at all. On the contrary, when you're already in the final stages of divorce, or recently divorced, it's a wonderful thing to actually have some sort of bright future to which you can look forward... a light at the end of the tunnel. I'm happy for you both.
No, not at all. It just seemed a good opportunity to clarify, in case anyone not so well informed made a wrong assumption.
Thanks very much ED, your kind woeds are most apreciated.