The one piece of advice I can give is very simple:
GIVE MORE THAN YOU GET.
(And of course that goes for hubby too. That "50/50" stuff is bullhockey.)
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It's situations like yours that test a relationship from the onset. You must
to be able to trust each other and compromise.
There's no way around it. If he truly loves you, he'll honor your
wedding wishes. I mean, isn't he supposed to be courting and wooing
you?
Oops, there I go thinking like a Yank again. Maybe it's different in Wales.
Doesn't matter. Just remember this: Give more than you get.
And that goes for both of you.
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