Pics of us

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 12:39 pm

I dont know if he is jealous but hell has a better chance of freezing over before I even talked to him again

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 12:40 pm

ElfDude wrote:People tend to project their own guilty feelings onto those who make them look bad.

I know exactly where you're coming from, Schu.

That is ver true elfie..very true indeed

and I'm sad that you know where I'm coming from cuz it's pretty shitty...not what I would have wished for at all

ElfDude · Post by **ElfDude** » Wed May 24, 2006 12:44 pm

schuette wrote:
ElfDude wrote:People tend to project their own guilty feelings onto those who make them look bad.

I know exactly where you're coming from, Schu.
That is ver true elfie..very true indeed

and I'm sad that you know where I'm coming from cuz it's pretty shitty...not what I would have wished for at all

Of course not. It hurts a LOT!

But I've found that being bitter just makes it worse. Keep your chin up!

Soup4Rush · Post by **Soup4Rush** » Wed May 24, 2006 12:44 pm

its sad when someone uses their kids as a way to get at someone. Jade probably would have loved to had both parents at the drama production.

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 12:57 pm

ElfDude wrote:
schuette wrote:
ElfDude wrote:People tend to project their own guilty feelings onto those who make them look bad.

I know exactly where you're coming from, Schu.
That is ver true elfie..very true indeed

and I'm sad that you know where I'm coming from cuz it's pretty shitty...not what I would have wished for at all
Of course not. It hurts a LOT!

But I've found that being bitter just makes it worse. Keep your chin up!

I'm lucky not to be bitter....I cried for honestly 5 mins the day after he left and then I laughed...even the next time I saw my mum she was shocked at how I was laughing and smiling again
now if he says anything I take it with a pinch of salt....what is annoying though is if Jade is looking through pics Caelan gets upset that he's not in any pics with his dad....but sad to say that's how kids have to live now-a-days...saying that 5 mins after the photos are away he's back to his usual chheky self

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 12:58 pm

Soup4Rush wrote:its sad when someone uses their kids as a way to get at someone. Jade probably would have loved to had both parents at the drama production.

she would have but she's also (luckily) old enough to know that that is never gonna happen and she's cool with it....Caelan has never seen me and his dad (he left when I was 35 weeks pregnant) together so I really dont think it will be an issue with him...hopefully

Soup4Rush · Post by **Soup4Rush** » Wed May 24, 2006 1:11 pm

Its sad, my exwife constantly dump on my girls but for some reason they keep forgiving her and letting her back in their lives. She will go months and sometimes years without seeing them. Then out of no where pops back in, makes a bunch of promises, does not deliver than poof! gone again.

ElfDude · Post by **ElfDude** » Wed May 24, 2006 1:18 pm

Soup4Rush wrote:Its sad, my exwife constantly dump on my girls but for some reason they keep forgiving her and letting her back in their lives. She will go months and sometimes years without seeing them. Then out of no where pops back in, makes a bunch of promises, does not deliver than poof! gone again.

She's their mom. They love her. They want everything to be okay, so they look for reasons that it might be. Poor kids.

Soup4Rush · Post by **Soup4Rush** » Wed May 24, 2006 1:29 pm

you are absolutly right, I don't slam her in front of them. They need to figure it out on their own. They are teenagers now, so the reality is starting to set in...

ElfDude · Post by **ElfDude** » Wed May 24, 2006 1:39 pm

Soup4Rush wrote:you are absolutly right, I don't slam her in front of them. They need to figure it out on their own. They are teenagers now, so the reality is starting to set in...

Yeah, same here. I try not to say anything mean about her in front of them. They deserve a mom who loves them. My problems with her are grown up problems. The kids don't need to carry the burden of them.

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 1:41 pm

I say that about my kids...one day they will know what sort of dad my ex is...I dont need to tell them

Soup4Rush · Post by **Soup4Rush** » Wed May 24, 2006 1:43 pm

and one day justice will be served I suppose.

ElfDude · Post by **ElfDude** » Wed May 24, 2006 2:03 pm

Soup4Rush wrote:and one day justice will be served I suppose.

Problem is, it will be served against me as well! I am so far from a perfect person...

Fortunately, the God in which I believe is not only just, but merciful.

Or, if you're not a believer, justice will be served because nobody escpaes dying!

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 2:08 pm

LOL!! but I'm bringing this thread back on topic......and yes this is Caelan biring his toenails...actually it looks like he's sucking his toe

edited till I fix the pic

schuette · Post by **schuette** » Wed May 24, 2006 2:10 pm

oh I'll need to crop that pic...just discovered his 'wee man' is showing